Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality

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Sex Ed: Advice For Dudes Who Have Sex With Dudes

Booking a Gay Erotic Massage
Tips on getting exactly what you want during a male-male erotic massage.
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Mike Gerle
Gays Handcuff Themselves to the Standard Narrative
How deferring to the Standard Narrative strips gay men of our choices and our dignity
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Mike Gerle
Beyond Sport F*cking
How playful undressing can lead to mind-bending release
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Mike Gerle
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Battlefield Awareness: Finding Focus in Sexual Playgrounds
Harnessing the chaos is key to getting laid.
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Mike Gerle
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Jealousy and Sluts
Dealing with how our need to seed causes professional jealousy in open relationships.
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Mike Gerle
“Have Sex with Me, or You’re an Asshole.”
Boundaries start with self-love. Personal responsibility is key to knowing what’s out of bounds.
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Mike Gerle
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Finding Meaning With Your Pants Down
Navigating a plethora of social sexual pleasures to achieve spiritual purpose
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Mike Gerle
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Advice for Hot Guys
Yes, they still want to f*ck you. That’s the power you have. And that’s precisely the problem.
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Mike Gerle
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