Going Deep: A Gay Guide to Reality

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...men who shared my bed for five-year stints or died in a hospital room, leaving me no one to come home to except you, Ted.

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Originally Posted on September 30, 2019

I’ve loved Ted for 52 years.

Aside from my birth parents, this is the longest relationship of my life. The fact that it’s a relationship with an inanimate teddy bear does not change the fact that I truly and deeply love this hunk of fabric, fiber, and buttons.

Love is mysterious.

My teddy bear and I met 52 years ago w…

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